you have fear, and fear will drive your communication. Emotions are crazy things. and when you fall in love with someone you will not communicate well-or i shouldnt say you wont communicate well. believe me you'll communicate better then you ever have in your life. you'll say exactly what you mean-you might even scream it

. your emotions will throw you in places you wont even understand. you'll act in ways you cant believe, and its what happens when the communication sucks that determines the marriage. Its what happens when both partners are down and out that will determine the marriage. The more you try to make a logistical communication game out of it, the more frustrated you'll be. Its what is under the communication, the promise and the commitment, that will make you or break you.