gettingstrongereveryday

I have not gotten the book yet, but will get a copy. I have hit rock bottom and frankly don't care if he has or not. This is not an empty threat - in the 10 years we have been married I have NEVER told him I wanted out or a separation - I'm serious now - I'm done.

Devlin

I can't fault you at all for that. I didn't go through the whole thread because it's so long but I read your first posts and these last few. Texts at 5:15 am are RIDICULOUS. Texting for 25 minutes after all the conversations you've already had with him is unbelievable.

Stick to your guns. Maybe it will make him come around, maybe it won't but you shouldn't have to put up with a third person in your marriage.

I hope it all gets better for you.

DayDream

It's just infuriating, I know, that after ten years with someone...giving your life to them basically, sacrificing and loving them, and one idiot comes in and they get preference over you and suddenly are more important than your security and self respect. Unbelievable.

Leahcar1985

This thread is not gettingstronger's.
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DayDream

I'm sorry, Leah. I really thought I was responding to you. Got confused there.

iheartlife

Sorry about that Leah. I can't get her to talk in her own thread. You can see how much she needs to hear this stuff, and I know she keeps coming back to it. But her situation is not yours. Or if it is (god forbid--I say that to you, not her, with a great deal of sympathy to her), it has its own nuances that make it quite distinct.

Leahcar1985

No problem, I just didn't want anyone getting confused on each of our situations. I am curious to how everything has been going for her.
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Leahcar1985

Just an update... Went to husband's work Monday and met a few of his co-workers, obviously she was not one of them he took me to meet. I did see her yesterday on a run with my friend oddly enough, I smiled, she did not and just starred at me, maybe she has seen a photo of me, not sure. My friend said I totally had her on looks and persoanlity because she's crazy but I already knew that and that was not why I was worried about her. After I told my husband that he said she pulled him aside yesterday at work and was a little upset he de-friended her on Facebook and long story short would not bother him at work or outside of work anymore. Finally!
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gettingstrongereveryday

Leah and iheartlife, I posted you both an update on my thread.

not sure what to do??

Sorry about high jacking your thread Leah.

Cosmos

Leah, I'm glad that things have improved for you and your H.

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