04-21-2012, 03:01 PM
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|  Re: Husband's married coworker won't leave him alone
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Originally Posted by LadyFrogFlyAway  Leah, one thing to keep in mind about women like this. She may not even *want* your husband for him; they do it for the power. They get a real ego rush taking another woman's man...in their minds, it reaffirms their own sexiness, desirablilty and self-worth.
A few years back at a company dinner, a co-worker of my husband's was trying to flirt with him. I walked over to them, and she had the ballz to lay her hand on his arm in a flirtacious way, right in front of me, and say, "He's such a gem. Someone might try to steal him away." I didn't like the comment. I looked her right in the eye and said, "I wouldn't want to be the woman who tries it." She removed her hand and backed off. Thankfully she no longer works there.
That's the approach I would take. Not everyone will agree, and most are more diplomatic than I. But I say a woman who is actively scheming to take your man doesn't deserve to be handled with kid gloves.
I stand by what I say. Everything your husband is doing is sending a clear signal that he likes it and wants it to continue.
I really hate saying this but I think he's already having an EA and you need to act FAST. Deleting e-mails is a huge red flag...and 645 of them? Holy cow. That's more than work-related. | Well done.
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