What about if a woman doesn't want to wait? I'm serious...
I tried waiting once for a man I cared for to have sex. Waited over 6 months. Just odd. It didn't last. He was weird in bed.
It would be weird , wouldn't it !! Was he a believer & felt guilty/ sinful... what was his reasons and wasn't it a HUGE struggle anyway?? I assume you did other things since you said he was "weird in bed".
I know if I wanted to go "all the way"..... it wouldn't have been twisting my husbands arm by any means, he would have happily accommodated, it was my boundary since I was very young- always playing in my head.
Can't say I didn't want to..... many many many many many many many many many many times!! I was bound & determined to wait that out... Just the way I viewed life back then. But we were clearly tainted virgins...alot of hand roaming. If he didn't try to go for THAT...... I would have felt he wasn't into me or desired me..... I know that would have bothered me tremendously. I wouldn't have wanted a guy "THAT GOOD".... cause I didn't want to be "that good".
I guess I liked being "the gatekeeper".... but if he had no interest in pushing up against the gate a little.. it wouldn't have been right somehow!
Our oldest son is waiting, he is as stubborn as I was back then.... but he hasn't had the temptation of a GF yet to see how that plays out......I almost wish some Vixen on him to see if he will BREAK .....nasty I know!
My biggest fear...he is going to marry a Low Drive woman and curse the day he wanted a virgin. I know that sounds awful .... I tell him all the time.... you want to wait, I can respect that, but if she is not DYING for it, and isn't a regular masterbater... RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN !!
Great advice from your Mother huh! Just trying to realistic!
I've read far too many heartbreaking stories here. I was always high drive, I just felt guilty about my sexuality, that was my/ our problem.