Originally Posted by cory275
i am full figured woman - im 5 5" and 280lbs.. but i have always been this size. i was this size when my hubs met me, dated me, and married me. i've never met his parents... maybe he's preparing me for them?
For starters, full figured doesn't mean what a lot of people think it means. Full figured is when someone is fat but still has a very feminine shape, usually hourglass shaped. Full figured does not apply if a person has lost that feminine shape.
i dunno should I just do it and say "thank you"?
No, you shouldn't. You should definitely lose weight, but getting lipo will cause a lot of new problems
1) you are agreeing that he has a say over your body
2) lipo is really damn expensive
3) lipo doesn't fix what made you fat in the first place
If you don't stand your ground right now, where will it end? Can he also suggest implants and face lifts? You need to say no.
Even if you said yes, it won't do much good. If you're fat because you love food and hate exercise, then you'll just get fat again a year later. I've gained about 10 pounds in less than a month since I started taking a certain medication, so it's not like it's hard to put on extra weight when food consumption greatly exceeds dietary needs. You could easily pack on another 50 pounds per year until you're right back to where you started.
If you're serious about weight loss, you can ask your doctor for medication to help you slim down. Some doctors will give people Dexedrine or Adderall to lose weight since both are amphetamines. They give a person lots of energy and they drive appetite down.