04-23-2012, 06:43 PM
Join Date: Apr 2012
| | Re: confused
Thanks for responding. It's all kind of bizarre really..
I know for certain they are divorced and two babies she's had since are not his. He has own place, she has hers.
She played the field while they were married. Got pregnant, had another guys baby. They ended their marriage and separated while she was pregnant. Divorced officially last year. She started seeing somebody else after having her baby. Got pregnant again. There was talk of her wanting to be with the third guy, didn't work out.
She has mental health issues to the point where she doesn't want to get out of bed sometimes. During a phase recently he went and stayed there, looked after the kids, did all that stuff for quite a few weeks.
When she needs help with the kids (there are 6 now, 4 his, 2 belong to others) hes the one there picking up the pieces.
Kids are the no 1 excuse (he wants to be there, be supportive, kids need him etc)
He has told me she has said that he doesn't deserve to be happy. (Its kind of like well since she's not, why should he be)
It's all very bizarre