DanF

I don't think that I would give my wife an ultimatum. I would strongly point out how screwed up her friend is, bring up everything negative about her that I could think of and strongly tell my wife how much she needs to get away from that person.
I would also tell her that one day, this "friend" is going to hurt her badly and I don't want to see that happen.

If anyone beat up my wife, it would be very difficult for me to not physically alter that person for life.

PrincessMarie

I would choose my husband. I had a similar situation happen with my SO and me, though I wanted him to stop talking to his best friend. His BF doesn't even live in the same state anymore and all he does is tell him to date other woman, cheat on me or that cheating is okay. I don't like having friends outside of the few I see three times a year. Outside of the computer, it just seems like everyone is out there to hurt someone else and I've never seen a need to have another person around to keep yourself from being bored. Facebook once a week is all the interaction with backstabbers I need thank you very much.

Eternal Embrace

I sooo love this and feel the exact same way!!!

As for your co-worker - sounds like she's a whackjob and deserves whatever comes her way when it comes to her so-called best friend.

To choose this horrible friendship over her husand is disgusting.

When she married that man she took a vow to forsake all others... well, maybe that wasn't in their vows...

KittyKat

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