05-06-2012, 10:20 PM
Join Date: Feb 2012
| | Re: confused and hurt
Since I do not know your whole story, has he cheated emotionally or physically in the past? Did he used to be private about his phone, for example, when it rang would he leave the room, did he get nervous when you asked to see who he was texting?
Cheaters have a mantra - DENY DENY UNTIL YOU DIE. Do you believe what he tells you? Mistakes can be made. It could just be someone texted the wrong number, but if he has participated in this kind of behavior in the past, you may have to come to grips with the fact that he is lying to you.
The trouble is, WHO WANTS TO BE A PRIVATE DETECTIVE? You didn't sign up for that job. Sometimes when we try to be sneaky and look for clues of bad things, we often find bad things we wish we didn't know. What does your gut tell you? What advice would YOU give someone who wrote exactly what you wrote in your post?
The snake is notoriously tempting
But the snake is fair.
What is worse than not knowing?
To live or disappear?