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Old 05-10-2012, 08:54 PM   #16 (permalink)
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Did you tell him this?
Not in those words. But I plan to when he gets home.
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Thats good... he should really know how this is effecting you and how you feel about it.
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Ok so we talked dh and I and this was after he had some time to think he says he honestly does not remember and I have accepted that and am moving on to a much more important aspect, the trust issue in our relationship which we had a long talk about today and will continue to work on...... Give it to me straight wth do I tell this "friend" the two of them spoke in the telephone last night on speaker so I could hear, she attempted to jog his memory although she did say to him that she thought he would've already told me, he told her I know I took you home that night to your house she denied it, whatever then she and I spoke today and I told her that I am having a hard time with her reasoning for how she thought she could somehow use this "trust" she built with him to get her to talk to him, but whatever and that I am having a harder time with why she is bringing it up now when she knows we r having issues and why she kept it from me for all these years when she was supposed to be MY friend, she was not his friend. She said she was affraid she would lose my friendship over it, Yada Yada..... So I am really thinking about this and usually I am a very forgiving person. I even spoke with a trusted family member today (male I would add) who said he has a hard time believing if her story is true that the secret would've been kept that long by her if she did not have some sort of desire for my dh, or something physical happened that night n she just didn't have the balls to admit that part n tht is why my dh has no recall. Either way she is toxic is what I am being to,d and I should cut her lose because she either made this up, or held this secret claiming to be my friend. Do I tell her or just stop talking to her?
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