He lied to me, a big lie, ten years ago, and my friend felt so bad she finally told me and conveniently DH doesn't remember said night... he remembers the entire day, little details, but doesn't remember that night, and others can place him there as well (and no he was not drunk)... I just wish he would be honest, as she was, after all this time.... instead I got to see his lying face, and realized I've seen it a lot
Talked with his friend who said he is definitely lying just based on a comment he made afterwards. I don't even know what to make of all of it. I was willing to forgive it and move on, but he won't fess up.... wth? His friend says since he started with "I don't know what she's talking about, I don't remember" he stuck with it and now he's stuck and doesn't know how to get off the tracks.... but he didn't call her a liar, just said simply, he doesn't recall, he doesn't remember, maybe he did, he's sorry if he did, but he doesn't remember....grrrrr
Here is the situation.... back when we were dating, seriously and talking about the future. I had to go out of town to one state and he had a reunion in another state (my friend hitched a ride to that state as well) but when they got back, they had a private party with some drugs... no sex, just drugs. But she felt guilty because he swore her to secrecy not to tell me... so she finally told me, we were talking about all sorts of things last night so she came clean, said it's bothered her for years... I ask him about it, and he doesn't remember.... (not a drug that you would forget on).