Re: Wife want space
If she's cheating, she had to first develop the urge to and find a way to rationalize the act to herself. If the marriage died 5 years ago, she'd be taken off her ring 5 years ago and her other current behaviors would have been evidenced back then. Rather than focus on the specific excuses she provided, ask yourself what changed right before her behavior significantly changed. Women often act upon "feelings" and then look for ways to explain their feelings. These explanations may or may not be accurate. They should always be taken seriously, but take them for what they are. When I investigate a crime which involves someone departing wildly from their "norm", I focus on the events closely preceding the departure. There, you will usually find the truth. If there's another guy involved, I bet her behavior change dates coincide with the date they became mutually sexually interested. Everyone has to justify to themselves everything they do.