09-27-2012, 04:32 AM
Join Date: Sep 2012
| | Re: Handling a wife's emotional affair or maybe the EA of my wife's friend toward my
One of the greatest marital problems I would have to say is no communication or the lack of it. Many times we talk but we do not listen. We do selectively listening, that is, we only take in what we want to hear. Why? Maybe because we think it is not important. Or the issue is too massive to handle. So we pretend its not there or its not so serious. We hide underneath the pillow hoping the problem will go away. Well, the reality is, its not going to go away.
If you seriously want to get your wife back, you will have to take action straight away. It begins with your thoughts. From my experience, many marriages which seem doomed, actually survived. I believe marriages can be salvaged. If you really love your wife, you could consider putting your wife's needs above others. It says to her, she is important and valued.
Commit to each other by making a decision in advance that in the event of problems arising in the marriage, you will make reconciliation your priority.
Spend time with each other. You mentioned that you both are too busy. Well, healthy relationships take time to grow, so spend time doing things together. Go on dates again, make it fun! Play and laugh together...
Hope my suggestions can help you in some way. Do get help though if you are at a lost on what to do because it can be really overwhelming..