05-27-2012, 08:58 PM
Join Date: May 2012
Location: Deep Water
| | Re: Wife hates my gray hair
[QUOTE=Prospero;754619]I think spouses have a duty to look good for one another. But there is a difference between not wearing slobby clothes and covering your hair with chemicals to make it look unnatural.
Yes Prospero, this would be my hang up with being requested to dye my hair, CHEMICALS, Yikes! I personally think grey looks quite distinguished & attractive on our male counterparts. I have been slowly going grey since my early 20's, my husband likes my long hair, so do I, I'm still not sure about my grey though but that's way it stays. I like to lead by example when it comes to my kids as well, we have always been fairly natural livers, with our youngest daughter in cancer remission the last thing I would encourage her to do is load her head up with chemicals time & time again when she comes of age, this approach seems to have been noted by our eldest daughter now in her 20's and doesn't dye her hair.
I think stating this fact to your wife is a fair rebuttle to this issue.