05-23-2012, 10:21 AM
Join Date: Mar 2012
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I guess we will all attempt to comment on this situation as to what our own experiences have been in life, what kind of people, what kind of 15-year olds we came across so far. I would ask for more details before commenting either ways. (1) Some more details about the incidence from both sides to make sure it is all true (2) husband's reaction (3) what kind of legal consequences might he face, (4) any existing conflicts b/w husband and her family, husband and her sister (5) any existing jealousy issues between OP and her sister?
When something like this happens it is very important in my opinion to first validate that what is being said is all true, that there are no false accusations etc.
Assuming what is being said is true, I think only OP would be in a position to judge the situation entirely. I would just advice that OP finds out all facts with a non-biased mind and evaluates them as rationally as she can in her position, which I am sure not a comfortable one right now.
Assuming this is all true the H would certainly be at fault and it would sound like it was indeed premeditated. Definitely not something that can be forgiven. As for the sister's behavior that is gray area for me. To a bystander such as me, I would think it is all husband's fault. However I haven't come across any 15-year olds who drink beer in the first place. So my opinion is biased out of my own perception. Only OP can decide about what she thinks about her sister's role in this.
As for the general discussion on 15-year olds .. In my opinion there is a big difference between a 5-year old and a 15-year old. A 15-year old certainly can understand what is right and what is wrong irrespective of the hormones.
Last edited by eowyn; 05-23-2012 at 10:26 AM.