should I be concerned?

iheartlife · 05-24-2012, 09:44 AM

Oh, and I forgot to mention Love Busters. Help him see what annoys you and you him. The reason this book goes hand-in-hand with the others is that if you're not careful, you give with one hand (meet your spouse's needs) and with the other, you take away (love busters).

Again, this is as much for him to learn about YOU to be a good husband as it is for you to target his individual preferences.

eowyn · 05-25-2012, 09:55 PM

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Originally Posted by dubbizle

So here we go again, you talked with him he said he was going to not do and guess what HE IS but he will just hide it better maybe if you would have tried to make it a more unconventional approach you might have gotten somewhere.

It seems to me you are lacking in Self Esteem as long with anybody else that gets worried over a bunch of pictures,do you trust your husband or not is the question because if you do then it will be just a bunch of pictures ,if he want to cheat he can go find somebody without the computer just like in the days before the computer.

I really like the responses I am with my husband all the time,are you his wife or his mother watching over him and he can't go on the computer or another person saying I don't let my husband do this or that on the computer, what is that about when you are two adults.

It just not Men looking at women it also women looking at men so get off that only men thing.

In my opinion Trust is not for free... It is something that needs to be earned by the other party. If OP's husband is checking out these hot FB women I think he is giving her enough reason to not entirely trust him. "Checking out women over FB" is not the same as "Browsing appliances on Amazon". Also not stopping this kind of a behavior is equivalent to encouraging this behavior.