Thor

If I found a text exchange on my wife's phone where she shot down a guy who was coming on to her, I'd be smiling and cheering. Isn't that exactly the perfect action on her part? And there is no reason for her to tell me, and there is no reason to hide it by deleting the texts.

I don't tell my wife every time a woman makes an advance towards me, but if she asks I would tell her anything she wanted to know. So I have no issue with the OP having done what she did.

My take is that hubby was caught and he had no good response so he just rolled over in bed and pretended to go back to sleep. Without more info it is hard to come to a good opinion, but I think there is something going on with him. Time to do some spying.

A Bit Much

I'm sorry but penis pics are for other people to look at. If you didn't get them sent to you, then you better believe they're for someone else to check out. He's planning it, or he did it already. Nuff said.

Cosmos

I see mistakes on both sides here. You for having a male friend who even felt in a position to come on to you, and your H for keeping photos on his phone of another woman and his penis.

You need to both sit down and talk to one another calmly about this, and erect some boundaries that you're both comfortable with.

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When the past calls, let it go to voicemail. It has nothing new to say.

CandieGirl

She's gone, posted and never came back.

KathyBatesel

I don't think this was about revenge. I think his strong reaction to you doing the right thing was him projecting a guilty conscience onto you so he could feel better about the way he's been betraying you.

If it was me in your shoes, I'd be doing some spying and expecting him to come clean and maybe even look for a new job or I'd be planning to divorce. That great job that gives you so much will have to support your children from far away if he can't be the emotional family bond that you all need.

Dr. Rockstar

My only question is this:

Who takes pictures at work?!?