Re: In need of some inspiration
well, hard to say, If you ahve very strong religious views, I would imagine you can go through your church, or a church like it to find a husband.
Eharmony, may be good, the man that started that is very religious.
But when I met my wife she was a virgin, I was 20, she was 19. She wanted to "wait" which I was fine with...6 months later she was ready to try sex. we dated 7 years before we ended up getting married (married 12 years).
Marriage is about connection, openess, trust, communication. More to it then sex...when you have sex finally you may just be..."That's it?"
I mean it is really up to you and your personal beleifs, if you wish to wait, then wait. But you may end up with a man who may be boring in Bed.
case example: I dated a Nympho maniac in HS, it was sex, sex sex...at the time thought it was great, but nothing earth shattering.
I met my wife some years later, she was a virgin, first time was weird and akward...but it got better, to the point of....earth shattering.
I view my wife as a 1000X better in bed then my nympho HS girl, becuase she is into it and we are connected, comfortable, etc. My Nympho girl was like a log when it came to sex, just not all that into it, just the act.
I personally believe people should have sex before marriage, sort of "test driving the car" before purchasing it. See if you have that intamite connection, that special bond of love making as opposed to hot sex.
I wish you all the best, I would just hate for you to get married and then find out your hubby is terrible in bed, I thank my prior girlfriends for letting me know that when I met my wife, it was explosive as compared to a "good time" and 19 years later....I still feel that way...I can hardly wait to get her into bed....every day....well I at least try. lol