05-29-2012, 06:28 PM
Join Date: Feb 2012
| | Re: Marriage Help!
I do agree with the first part of Toffer's post where it's saying that she is check out of marriage, kind of a friendship relationship now. I do not agree with the fact to play the detective; communication will do a better job.
You guys need to put all the cards on the table; true talking is needed. It's seemed like she knows how you are feeling, but it doesn't seems like she talk easy. If you ask her how committed, she is on your marriage, what would she say? What about '' how do you see our marriage 5 years from now?''.
What may help to before starting those important questions, is to set some rules. Honestly( no bull****, real talking), respect(let the other talk) and calm (no yelling).
What do you guys want from your marriage?
Five frogs are sitting on a log. Four decide to jump off. How many are left? Still 5 frogs because there’s a difference between deciding and doing.
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