06-08-2012, 07:36 PM
Join Date: Jun 2012
| | Was he cheating?
FAirly new here and finally got to subscribe to this type of forum because i think i really need lots of support in my relationship.
I read in an article about 32 ways to emotionally tell if your partner is cheating on you and was heart broken to find most of them applied to my live in boyfriend.
However he doesn't know that i have access to his mobile phone statements and found nothing in there. I also have access to his email and found some flirty messages once in a while but to different girls.
I admit that I am insecure at times only because he lacks intimacy and care towards me, and those are what I consider important.
A few months ago we've been fighting like cats and dogs over his choice of going out with friends instead of taking me out. And after a deep & meaningful conversation recently, we are more respectful of each other now and i can tell he's making an effort.
However coming across that article made me think if he flirted or touched another girl (not necessarily had sex with) while we were emotionally distant from each other?
Does the fact that I saw nothing in his phone statement means Im too paranoid and should lay these questions to rest?
Thanks for taking time to read and have a nice day!