06-12-2012, 12:08 PM
Join Date: Dec 2011
| | Re: Whining
It might be that your husband is one of those managers....ie, Don't come to me with problems, come to me with solutions.
Just do what you think is right. Remind people to pick up after themselves an/or hire a housekeeper. If there's a problem, wait until he approaches you.
One thing I would not do is let the house become a mess. Given the nature of this message board, I can easily imagine a spouse complaining to an EA how their partner can't keep house.