06-15-2012, 11:06 AM
Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: New England
Originally Posted by fascination
THIS is what I want and don't get. We never go out, he won't cuddle with me, etc.
When you did go out or cuddle, did you keep things light? I used to do this with my W and she mostly used it as an opportunity to list all of the projects I had to do around the house, worry out loud about this or that, or complain about her co-workers. I had to say "You do realize that I don't work for you, right?" Got her all pissed off, but I'm perfectly capable of managing all of my projects and know when something needs fixing before she does. She is just a person who feels that everyone will screw up if she isn't in charge.
I guess my point is that going out could be a way of connecting for you, but stressful for him.