06-14-2012, 12:52 AM
Join Date: Dec 2011
| | Re: Whats the worst thing your spouse has said about you in MC?
Originally Posted by ConfusedHubby
Thanks, I always chalked it up to "She's an addict, she has a disease, thats not really her, thats not who she is"
But still when you have somebody constantly playing with your emotions. Up, down, back and forth it starts to wear you out mentally and that is where I am at right now. That is why im 1300 miles away from her. I've always been consistent with her as in I've always maintained that I love her, I am content and want to make this marriage work. She has been every which direction about what she wants as far as us being together. Not really fair to me. Maybe one day she will get the help she needs and we can talk again, but by then I imagine I'll have moved on. I'm no angel, I've had my bouts with drinking, but I quit when it put a strain on our relationship and she asked me to, I asked her to do the same and she wasn't willing to do that because she doesn't think that her addictions have any effect on our marriage. She's blinded to the fact. She says that I needed to quit because i'm allergic to alcohol and cant handle it, while she can.
Sadly, we can't make anyone change. They have to do because they want to.
Some finally change for the better because staying the way they are causes more pain than not.