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post #1 of 2 (permalink) Old 04-08-2009, 10:38 AM Thread Starter
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am i doing the right thing?

so last week my husband noticed i was broke and asked me why i didn't tell him i needed more money. i told him i was ok, so he reminded me again that if i need more, just ask. i told him if i needed it, i would tell him (of course i'm not going to do that, i don't want anything from him.) since then, unless it's about our daughter, i cut off all communication with him. i figured he doesn't want to talk to me, so why should i bother. an example, i sent him that article that was posted here a couple of weeks ago about the marriage road map and the 5 phases, he read it but didn't take any consideration. he asked what he was suppose to think about it, i said think what you want, just know we're not the only couple going through this. then he said he can easily find an article that contradicts everything the other article said. so why bother anymore if he's not willing

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post #2 of 2 (permalink) Old 04-08-2009, 11:43 AM
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Re: am i doing the right thing?

I dont know exactly what the "right thing" to do is, but I can relate to you not wanting to waste time talking w/ someone who's not putting any effort into communicating w/ you. How can any problem, between 2 people, be solved by only one of them?
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