Anytime husband is sitting down to talk, watch TV, anything besides eating or being up doing something he falls asleep.
So that means anytime we are discussing stuff to work on our relationship, his eyes are closing. I know he has to be up early for work and many times doesn't get enough sleep, but it's so frustrating. I feel like I'm never being heard when I have to nag him to keep his eyes open. I almost feel like to have a discussion where I have all his attention is when we're out at a restaurant, driving or taking a walk together.
He has an appt to see a therapist to see maybe if he needs more help. In general, he is more of a pessimist, introvert, sarcastic but funny guy.
We started talking about going to the therapist when I was telling him I feel like if he ever left me, I'd be devastated. If I ever left him, he said he'd be "really upset". I just don't think he would be as devastated as me, like sometimes I think maybe he's just being complacent or is too lazy to speak up or leave if he's really unhappy.
I guess I'm rambling now, but any advice?