Oh, my estranged husband said he was too busy. Counseling would have interfered with his active social calendar. Also, the mistresses told him he was perfect just the way he was. Surely I (being the mean ole nasty wife) must be the one in need of counseling.
The first thing I suggested when we had the 'separation' talk was MC- I was not at all prepared or willing to separate. He said 'It is not just one thing that needs to be 'tweaked' but a lot of things'.
He never really got around to explaining what those things were.