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Old 06-26-2012, 07:01 PM   #31 (permalink)
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no way!

oral on a her is better after it has fermented a little.
i dont like soap taste or the 'taste enhancers'.
i love the natural scent and taste of lady parts. mmm
*GAG!!!* 2nd!! hush up with your grossness!!!
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Old 06-26-2012, 07:24 PM   #32 (permalink)
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I'm kind of person that want wife to shower before making love, I feel ,, how do I put the words if wife didnt shower,, not disguist but kills my mood for it.

anyone in the same shoes
My wife showers once a day but is always clean unless she works out or some other activity. She is courteous enough to know when a shower is necessary and when it isn't. Your wife isn't the same or are you a little anal about things?
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Old 06-26-2012, 07:29 PM   #33 (permalink)
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we shower daily, but I want her to shower after going to bathroom if you know what i mean.
^^^^ They both shower daily paul. I think he's ocd
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Old 06-26-2012, 07:40 PM   #34 (permalink)
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My wife showers once a day but is always clean unless she works out or some other activity. She is courteous enough to know when a shower is necessary and when it isn't. Your wife isn't the same or are you a little anal about things?
He showers before and after sex... and wants her to shower after she goes to the bathroom. As Gaia said, we think he's OCD, but he seems to be avoiding the question.
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To shower BEFORE and AFTER sex?

Geebus...take the fun right out of it.
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To shower BEFORE and AFTER sex?

Geebus...take the fun right out of it.
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we do shower together, but wife sometimes lies about taking a shower lol.
You shower together but she still lies about it? She sound slike the worst liar in history.
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Old 06-26-2012, 08:20 PM   #38 (permalink)
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I'm kind of person that want wife to shower before making love, I feel ,, how do I put the words if wife didnt shower,, not disguist but kills my mood for it.

anyone in the same shoes
I absolutely agree.
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Old 06-26-2012, 09:44 PM   #39 (permalink)
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This probably isn't going to sound PC...

But I'd find your showering mandate a massive mood-killer simply because it's not very masculine...

Be grateful that you have a wife that's willing to tolerate it (at least most of the time)
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To shower BEFORE and AFTER sex?

Geebus...take the fun right out of it.
Right?

I've never even heard of such a mandate.
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Old 06-26-2012, 10:08 PM   #41 (permalink)
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We do that. Not so unusual...especially if we use, um, slippery stuff that gets sticky when it dries. I hate trying to sleep with that stuff all over me. And who wants to get, uh, tiny pieces of lint or ,even grosser, toilet paper in their mouth? I can totally understand this.
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Old 06-26-2012, 10:11 PM   #42 (permalink)
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My wife and I are similar in that after a round of sex, we're both a couple of exhausted heaps of flesh. So to speak.

Sometimes I can barely muster the energy to put a pair of sweat shorts on, let alone shower. I certainly wouldn't expect any different of my wife.
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Old 06-26-2012, 10:19 PM   #43 (permalink)
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Is there nothing to be said for spontaneity anymore!! I just can't imagine saying "hold that thought"LOL
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"You and me baby ain't nothing but mammals so lets do it like they do on the discovery channel"

Maybe consider embracing this as a personal mantra?

It could help you grow...
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Old 06-26-2012, 10:36 PM   #45 (permalink)
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Is there nothing to be said for spontaneity anymore!! I just can't imagine saying "hold that thought"LOL
^^^Which is why i suggested having a few drinks beforehand... it really helps put the ocd flame lower.... At least... I found it has.... lol
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