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Old 07-19-2012, 10:53 AM   #31 (permalink)
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The problem is you made a bad decision. Time to man up and not make that mistake again.

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Old 07-19-2012, 10:58 AM   #32 (permalink)
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I know she's not pregnant with anyone else's because she always flaunted how she's not a ***** that she'd never do certain things
You're kidding, right? She did you, and two of you are just friends, if that. Is it really that hard for you to think that she might have 1-2 other "friends" out there?
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Old 07-19-2012, 11:01 AM   #33 (permalink)
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She probably just said that, knowing you will probably read it, to get a rise outta you. No pun intended.
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Old 07-19-2012, 11:09 AM   #34 (permalink)
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not really a friend I just had sex with her she's sexually appealing but she's not someone I liked being around really.
Not a good idea having sex with someone you don't even like being around, OP. If the baby is yours (which sounds doubtful), you're going to end up having to deal with her, one way or another, for some years to come...
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Old 07-19-2012, 11:09 AM   #35 (permalink)
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Friend With Benefits.
Duh... too early in the morning.. or brain dead after staying up most of the night hanging with my son. Don't get many chances to just hang with him now that he's in colleg and has all the chick chasing him...
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Old 07-19-2012, 11:10 AM   #36 (permalink)
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So she says she's pregnant, and you assume that it's yours because you had sex with her 3 months ago? If she's 19, and wanted a baby as much as you say she did, my gut is that she JUST found out she's pregnant, and is sharing her news on FB. I know it's probably hard for you to believe, but she probably has slept with someone other than you in the past 3 months.

If you seriously think this baby could be yours then man-up and ask her. If it is, you'll know. If it isn't, you can stop stressing out about it. If she does say it's yours request a paternity test.

In the meantime, stop playing the FWB game, it doesn't turn out well.
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I can't ask in person I know if I did I'd do something dumb
What kind of dumb thing would you do if you asked in person?

How about emailing her?
Sending her a Facebook message?
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Could this be a troll having fun?
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Old 07-19-2012, 11:36 AM   #39 (permalink)
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she didn't anounce it on fb she just said it 2 months ago on another friend's fb she said she was expecting too. Her friend apparently is expecting... I've had sexual relations with her since last january up until 2 weeks ago. I guess I'm just going to message her and see where it goes.
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Old 07-19-2012, 12:13 PM   #40 (permalink)
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actually I'm serious I just sent it
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Old 07-19-2012, 01:59 PM   #41 (permalink)
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well she said she's pregnant, but she's seemingly told no one. I guess she's undecided on keeping it. She kind of though seemed to jump to the fact that she's getting an abortion... Idk I don't trust her...
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Old 07-19-2012, 02:15 PM   #42 (permalink)
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I can't ask in person I know if I did I'd do something dumb
Too late for that!
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Old 07-19-2012, 02:22 PM   #43 (permalink)
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well she said she's pregnant, but she's seemingly told no one. I guess she's undecided on keeping it. She kind of though seemed to jump to the fact that she's getting an abortion... Idk I don't trust her...
She's pregnant...okay. and did you ask if it was yours?
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Old 07-19-2012, 03:07 PM   #44 (permalink)
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yea it's mine. I think she just is being an attention wore. Really
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Lesson of the Day:

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