fwbs said she was pregnant on fb...

jamesdeanfan11 · 07-19-2012, 10:10 AM

so I don't really know the nice approach for this. But well, there's this girl I'm really hating now. She's 18 almost 19. She always brags about her damn job. She has the worst personality ever. I kind of feel used deceived. She said she wanted kids always so ****in crazy about that. But she knew I didn't and she didn't seem to give a damn about what I felt. I sued a condom and apparently didn't work. I saw she said back in may on another person's profile that she's pregnant... She's still not said anything to me in fact she doesn't look any different but that would make her 3 mo. So abortion's not even a choice. I can't even confront her on it because I think I would do worst than talking. I am just filled with rage on the subject. This ***** has no feelings what's so ever she's completely narcissistic and antisocial at the same time. She just manipulates and cheats anyone out for her own interest I despise her....

Ano · 07-19-2012, 10:13 AM

Maybe you're not the father?

That would be the reason why she hasn't told you.

And after all, you did use a condom.

ScaredandUnsure · 07-19-2012, 10:13 AM

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Originally Posted by jamesdeanfan11

so I don't really know the nice approach for this. But well, there's this girl I'm really hating now. She's 18 almost 19. She always brags about her damn job. She has the worst personality ever. I kind of feel used deceived. She said she wanted kids always so ****in crazy about that. But she knew I didn't and she didn't seem to give a damn about what I felt. I sued a condom and apparently didn't work. I saw she said back in may on another person's profile that she's pregnant... She's still not said anything to me in fact she doesn't look any different but that would make her 3 mo. So abortion's not even a choice. I can't even confront her on it because I think I would do worst than talking. I am just filled with rage on the subject. This ***** has no feelings what's so ever she's completely narcissistic and antisocial at the same time. She just manipulates and cheats anyone out for her own interest I despise her....

So what makes you think it would be yours? Maybe she has another FWB that she bangs.

that_girl · 07-19-2012, 10:13 AM

So you slept with Crazy and now you're surprised?

You slept with her. You knew she was 'not right'.

Have a paternity test at birth.

Mavash. · 07-19-2012, 10:13 AM

I'm thinking it's not yours.

For future reference try not to sleep with crazy again.

Jellybeans · 07-19-2012, 10:14 AM

Here's a bit of advice: don't have sex with people you don't like.

Cosmos · 07-19-2012, 10:17 AM

You call her a FWB, but that would imply that you were/are friends. Not a good idea, OP, to be friends with someone you dislike, much less have sex with them...

If you used a condom and she hasn't told you the child his yours, the chances are it isn't.

chillymorn · 07-19-2012, 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by jamesdeanfan11

so I don't really know the nice approach for this. But well, there's this girl I'm really hating now. She's 18 almost 19. She always brags about her damn job. She has the worst personality ever. I kind of feel used deceived. She said she wanted kids always so ****in crazy about that. But she knew I didn't and she didn't seem to give a damn about what I felt. I sued a condom and apparently didn't work. I saw she said back in may on another person's profile that she's pregnant... She's still not said anything to me in fact she doesn't look any different but that would make her 3 mo. So abortion's not even a choice. I can't even confront her on it because I think I would do worst than talking. I am just filled with rage on the subject. This ***** has no feelings what's so ever she's completely narcissistic and antisocial at the same time. She just manipulates and cheats anyone out for her own interest I despise her....

LOL....... really what are you asking here?

I think your jellous that she found someone else!

thunderstruck · 07-19-2012, 10:22 AM

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Originally Posted by jamesdeanfan11

I can't even confront her on it because I think I would do worst than talking.

Just get in touch with her, stay calm/neutral, and ask if the baby is yours. Get a paternity test ASAP if you get a yes.

EleGirl · 07-19-2012, 10:24 AM

What is a "FWB"?

that_girl · 07-19-2012, 10:24 AM

You are all too young to be messin' around like this. You can't even TALK to her about it, but you can have sex with her.

She could be lying about being pregnant just for the attention. People do it all the time.