well, your list isn't necessarily what I use to look for, but here is what I liked about my now husband.
1 - Sense of Humor
2 - Ambition
3 - Semi-old fashioned gentleman stuff (opening my car door, etc)
4 - Liking me for me
5 - Chemistry (if I hadn't been attracted to him, all the rest would of made him a really good best friend

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