hookares

This is indicative of the reason I will never enter into a long term exclusive relationship. My psyche would never be able to stand the perpetual doubt.

lifeisnotsogood

If you do surprise her, go two days early and keep an eye from afar. Rent a car and park down the street. When her portfolio buddy comes over, give them 15 minutes and then walk in quietly, but quickly. Have some flowers in your hand so the surprise seems legitimate if they were not engaged in any physical relationship.

If you enter and they are actively working on a portfolio, fake a happy to see you smile and give her the flowers.

If you enter and she is actively working on an orgasm, drop the plant (like in the movies) because the surprise is on you.

However you do it...good luck!

docj

Good master plan
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RClawson

I was holding out hope until I read this.

anonymouskitty

Whoa boy, doc here's hoping for the best. But be prepared for the worst. Can you hire a PI?

Entropy3000

Yes, surprise visit home but as has been stated take a couple of days waiting for the friend to arrive. See what is going on. This is worth the investment of your time and money. You may find the guy is essentailly living there.

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docj

Yes i will. Spoke to her yesterday n she saod she was asleep for 12 hrs. Also she says she isnt ibterested in foing out on her birthday with him.n will wait for me to visit the week afyer. I dunno what to make of it.
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in my tree

Honestly there is not much that you can make out of it until you go and see her. I think lifeisnotsogood's suggestion of going two days early is good advice. Hopefully you will then be able to see with your own eyes what is really happening in your wife's life. I hope that she isn't messing around on you, I really do. From reading this entire thread it seems that you have been through enough hell with women.

I'mInLoveWithMyHubby

I'm not sure if there is an emotional affair going on that they are unaware or not, but this man going to your home without you there is crossing the line.

My husband and I agreed not to have casual friendships with those of the opposite sex. This has worked out very well. I must admit that I do get jealous. I'd imagine my husband would be jealous as well if I had a male friend.

costa200

The way she told you this is more interesting than the information itself. How did that came up in the conversation?

docj

Costa i re asked her n she said no. Iminlovewithmyhubby i think thats the best thing you and hubby did. Inmytree yeah ill do as he suggested and go early.
Well she worked till this morning and has today and tomorrow off.f sinxe she left work ten hours ago i havent heard from.her. I called her n no answer. Im.assuming shes still asleep ten hours after leaving work
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the guy

Not only arrive early but think about showing back up after she thinks your leaving.

If you have some were to stay you can show back up a few days after she thinks your gone.

docj

Yes good plan. Im still waiting for her to call back. Been ten hours since she left work. . Im.assuming shes hasbeen sleep for ten hours.
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costa200

Oh... That's strange. She told you she was going a while ago, now you ask and she isn't going? Did she give you a reason why? Some sort of justification for this change of heart?

docj

Shes working on that day.
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