07-23-2012, 11:46 AM
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: State of Unwedded Bliss
| | FB PM -- how to respond?
I don't go on FB very often anymore, especially since I'm trying to avoid contact or reminders of STBXH. But I did today to look for a photo I posted a while back. I was shocked to see I had a PM from a co-worker who is leaving in a few days, professing his feelings for me. I had no clue. He is married with two kids. He said he felt OK to tell me because we'd probably never see each other again, but...we will be seeing each other for the rest of the week.
How do I respond to this? It's obvious to anyone that looks at my page that sometimes a week or two will go by without me getting on. So, can I take the chicken way out and just not say anything til after he's really gone?
Let yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you really love. It will not lead you astray. -- Rumi