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View Poll Results: Women, how do you feel about sex?
I love sex. 101 86.32%
I donít really like sexÖ but endure it sometimes but would rather not. 8 6.84%
I donít like sex. Won't have it. 1 0.85%
Other, will explain. 7 5.98%
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post #1 of 131 (permalink) Old 07-27-2012, 09:57 PM Thread Starter
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women ... do you like/love sex or dislike/hate sex?

Based on some posts on another thread here on TAM.....

I believe that most women love sex... and have been asked to prove it. What better way to find out then to ask women themselves. So of course I've devised this scientifically accurate poll to find out. Inquiring minds want to know.

As a woman do you love sex?

Or do you endure it and could you go the rest of my life without sex.

ETA: The poll if for sex with the 'right person'. Not sex with someone you would not want to have sex with.


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post #2 of 131 (permalink) Old 07-27-2012, 10:05 PM
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Re: women ... do you like/love sex or dislike/hate sex?

I don't hate it, I was the type who is ok with it maybe 2-5 times a month. I am more the "get it done and over with",,, I'm not usually up for all the foreplay.

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Re: women ... do you like/love sex or dislike/hate sex?

I love it!
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Re: women ... do you like/love sex or dislike/hate sex?

Another who loves it, here. Even in my "low" periods with my husband, I loved sex. I only felt like I had to "endure" it when I was emotionally disconnected from my husband. Even then, I wanted sex. I even told my husband recently that once a week is NOT enough for me. If I had my choice, I would choose 2-3 times a DAY... but willing to compromise at 2-4 times a week. Now, if I could get HIS drive in gear!

Oh, Ele, I saw that post. I agree with you. Both of my sisters and I have talked about sex and LOVE it... and then there are the MANY female friends I have who love sex. So, I agree with you. Based on MY experience (which is significantly less than yours as I am only 36)... MOST women DO love sex! And that's single AND married.

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Re: women ... do you like/love sex or dislike/hate sex?

Any correlation between regular orgasm vs. minimal/none?


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Re: women ... do you like/love sex or dislike/hate sex?

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Any correlation between regular orgasm vs. minimal/none?
Not sure what mean?

Regular orgams = not like sex?

Regular orgams = like sex?

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Another who loves it, here. Even in my "low" periods with my husband, I loved sex. I only felt like I had to "endure" it when I was emotionally disconnected from my husband. Even then, I wanted sex. I even told my husband recently that once a week is NOT enough for me. If I had my choice, I would choose 2-3 times a DAY... but willing to compromise at 2-4 times a week. Now, if I could get HIS drive in gear!

Oh, Ele, I saw that post. I agree with you. Both of my sisters and I have talked about sex and LOVE it... and then there are the MANY female friends I have who love sex. So, I agree with you. Based on MY experience (which is significantly less than yours as I am only 36)... MOST women DO love sex! And that's single AND married.
I agree with you that in a relationship where I feel emotionally disconnected it can feel like 'enduring' sex. But that does not mean that I don't love sex or could live without it. It means that the relationship is bad. It's time to fix the relationship or move on.

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I love sex, but I do not like to feel pressured into sex.

The more pressured I feel, the more it tends to make me react as if I am being raped/molested. I do not know if my husband understands this.
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Any correlation between regular orgasm vs. minimal/none?
The better the sex the more I want. Does that answer your question?

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Yes.
For most I'd think that regular orgams = like sex.

works for me.


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I love sex, but I do not like to feel pressured into sex.

The more pressured I feel, the more it tends to make me react as if I am being raped/molested. I do not know if my husband understands this.
I guess you need to figure out how to get this across to your husband.

How often do you want sex? How often does he want sex?

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Re: women ... do you like/love sex or dislike/hate sex?

I guess my username sums up my feelings!

I absolutely LOVE SEX....in my free time ..often it is what consumes my very thoughts...there is always a sweet "anticipation" there . I have never once in my life looked upon sex as a chore....it has always been a source of pure Joy, the sweetest Pleasure God has bestowed on us & fullfillment to a very deep place in my heart.

I did take it for granted for too many yrs in our marriage - not exactly going Bonkers for it every day, I allowed other things to flood my mind -but I never once used a headache excuse, and once he got me started, I was on fire. I was never deprived -it was there for the taking at my beck & call.

It brightens my world, puts the biggest on my face, it gives me hope.... Just the thought of it drying up -being taken from our lives....would wither my soul, Life would loose it's luster somehow.

Nothing fullfills me more than making love to the man I adore most in this world & feeling his desire for me in return.

It is the highest of the highs, an act we want to revive and revisit every day, something that never grows old... we cherish every moment in each others arms.

To my husband, it is only "making Love" .... likely why I feel this strongly. The emotion he shows is something I live for.

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I guess you need to figure out how to get this across to your husband.

How often do you want sex? How often does he want sex?
I would like it nightly if he didn't make it as long as a marathon or think it is a performance.

I dont know how often he would like it. He says he is horny all the time.
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I would like it nightly if he didn't make it as long as a marathon or think it is a performance.

I dont know how often he would like it. He says he is horny all the time.
How long are the marathons? Why do you think he seems it a a performance?

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Lmao... sorry anony... the marathon part strikes me as funny...
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