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Old 08-01-2012, 06:36 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Old 08-01-2012, 09:35 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Lol bri... sorry umm... can't quite think clearly atm but maybe the dom/provider should try to regain the confidence and trust of the sub/dependee? Perhaps counseling may help? I know counseling may seem like ann over rated suggestion buut it can help a couple get back to that comfort zone if its with a counselor both are comfortable with. Excuse any typos, a tad tipsy atm.
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Mybe the dom can make changes slowly so that the sub can get used to handling things in little bits?
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Sorry, no suggestions here. I'm a strong, confident woman and I like a strong confident man. The only kind of relationship that is appealing to me is one that is healthy and equal in all respects.
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Maybe find a forum that deals with these kind of relationships? Unless we have some doms here?
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I used to be very dependent on my husband--and then he got sick and had to depend on me. Not the easiest route to go, but it was very effective.

Is that what you're looking for?
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lol.

you understood it.
im trying to avoid a crash and picking up the pieces again.......
i need to understand better the dynamics.
Little deer always speaks of dynamics.
She can help you with that.
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specifically, something like sub drop or crash.

but a kind that isnt in the bedroom or bdsm in particuliar but outside the bedroom in a dom/sub relationship. Crash that a sub experiences when the dom stops being dom and the security is gone.

confusion, hysteria, depression, etc crash

and a dom crash, as the sub takes too much away or the dom gives too much away to serve the subs needs.

i started reading about this in bdsm forums, and got a little way. But im trying to get it out of the rollplaying to see how the equivilent is in a full dom/sub relationship.

anyone have any idea or info?


i would think there has to be some balance somewhere.
or maybe thats how im thinking of it because i say me and my boyfriend are both dominant and submissive at times.
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I agree with bkay. Littledeer might be of more help to you bri.
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Why did you say you wanted a traditional relationship and pretty much a submissive wife if it wasn't what you wanted?
I'm confused by your posts and feel for your wife.

It's perfectly OK to depend on your spouse. I'm submissive and I like to be able to depend on my partner as he also depends on me to fill the submissive role.
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