08-02-2012, 12:26 AM
Join Date: Jul 2012
| | Re: looking for info on dominant submissive relationship
Originally Posted by bribrius
specifically, something like sub drop or crash.
but a kind that isnt in the bedroom or bdsm in particuliar but outside the bedroom in a dom/sub relationship. Crash that a sub experiences when the dom stops being dom and the security is gone.
confusion, hysteria, depression, etc crash
and a dom crash, as the sub takes too much away or the dom gives too much away to serve the subs needs.
i started reading about this in bdsm forums, and got a little way. But im trying to get it out of the rollplaying to see how the equivilent is in a full dom/sub relationship.
anyone have any idea or info?
i would think there has to be some balance somewhere.
or maybe thats how im thinking of it because i say me and my boyfriend are both dominant and submissive at times.