Wife's Ex is a Facebook friend
Hi all, here's my dilemma. We've been married nearly 6 years, have two fantastic children, 4 & 2, nice house, confortable lifestyle.
Recently (last 2/3 months) my wife has opened a facebook account, in her maiden name, although her status is married. Since I don't have one, a few of my friends (or their wives) are her 'FB friends'. She says its a great way to share pics etc with her old university friends & see thier pics of families etc.
One of my friends recently moved abroad & I hadn't heard from him for a while so i went to my wife's FB site to see if there was any update from him/ his wife. I don't know my wife's password but somehow it just took me straight to her profile - I didn't hack it. About a month back she became 'FB friend' with an ex-boyfriend who she was seeing 9 years ago - just before I met her - and who 'broke her heart'. This guy was married with 3 children at the time, maybe still is, but he's moved to Barbados. I followed the link to his profile and I could see she'd sent a couple of comments to him (on his 'wall' I think they call it).
Here's my issues - 1) I found this out by accident, but it may look like I was snooping, 2) I don't know if she searched for him, or vice versa, 3) I am uncomfortable about her being 'freindly' with this guy, and presumably him having access to all the pictures of our children, me, our friends, etc, 4) I can imagine her reaction if i struck up any sort of contact with any of my ex's.
Is it unreasonable to be off with this behaviour? She hasn't 'fessed up' that she's made contact with this guy, so i find her silence a little suspicious. But I don't know how to approach her about it