04-30-2009, 09:00 PM
Join Date: Apr 2009
| | Help with problem
I need some advice. I have been married for 13 years and occasionally I have a disagreement with my husband. Over the last year, any disagreement we might have turns into some huge thing where he gives me the cold shoulder and won't talk to me until I break down and beg him to.
These don't happen often, maybe every 4 months or so. Well, two days ago I asked him what I thought was an okay question and he just snapped. I asked him to consider buying some jeans that don't show his butt when he bends down and he blew up. He said "F you!" to me about 6 times.
Now, I know that I don't know how my question came across to him, but I do know that I wasn't trying to be mean or sarcastic. I just really didn''t want him (or me or the kids) to be embarrassed when we are out and he bends down for something and shows everyone around something that no one needs to see.
Well, he went down to his office ( on the basement floor)and he hasn't come up since. He hasn't come up to bed,he hasn't helped with the kids activities, he hasn't said one word to me. I am going crazy and just so sad. Any suggestions on what I should do?