emb3425

My wife had done this kind of thing since we met. She began doing it in high school and it grew from there. It started as something she did accidentally (she said) in certain situations and became something she was into sexually over time. She let me know the extent of her feelings about this after many years of marriage. I've never gotten used to it and it bothers me. I'm sure it's different for those couples who are into it, but when one spouse is and the other isn't its actually pretty awful behavior.

HopelesslyJaded

That's what you call a contradiction.

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I have seen this twice at two different parties where a friend does this in a drunk state. The memory (mammory) of them doing it made me think less of them.

I can't imagine my wife doing it and would hope they are for my eyes only.

She kind of flashed me in the kitchen this morning, not sure if it was intentional, but wow talk about leaving me with a smile on my face.

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jealoushubby

That's one I hadn't thought of, I would totally be cool on a topless beach with my wife. Anyone ever do that? Would you do that??
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gbrad

If I had a hot wife and something like this happened in the right type of situation after a couple of drinks, I would be fine with it. My current wife, no, keep that area covered and try and look your best please.

HopelesslyJaded

As long as the guys were bottomless. LOL Little one sided to me.

jealoushubby

It was unexpected bc we thought there was NO WAY they would ever actually show us their breasts!
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Entropy3000

My wife flashing other folks would not be a turn on to me. I would feel major disrepected.

Whether they mean to or not I see this as sending a message about their boundaries and what they are willing to share.

So wet t-shirt contests included.

My wife has a nice set. I do like her to dress sexy when I am with her, but that is not like flashing.

Of course flashing is not limited to boobs.

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Racer

My wife has done that. It doesn't bother me. She's always done this sort of thing.

Its not without risk such as how others percieve you. So, she's a big girl and I respect her enough that she's willing to live with her own choices.

From my standpoint though: She's got a nice rack. I don't mind if the other guys are a bit jealous...

Writer

In my younger years (17-20), I used to flash people. I got a charge out of seeing people's reactions. I've since think I calmed down in my age (31) and think this line of thinking results in loose boundaries. I'm no longer the wild, impressionable young girl.

Now, the only one who gets to see them is my husband. He's quite happy with that.

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Goldmember357

no i would not want my wife doing that. I had girlfriend years ago and when were drunk really drunk i pressured her to make out with her friend. She did i loved that girl, but the next day she was mad at me for pressuring her and i did feel guilty and a little bad for being that kind of guy. Luckily i never asked girls to do anything like that again

My wife admits one of her past boyfriends egged her on to flash her breast while drunk and she told me she did. I suppose when you are young and into someone you are dating you want so badly to please that person and to be accepted.


I have grown up though while i was never wild when i was younger i probably while in college would of entertained the idea of a girlfriend flashing herself. But now i am older and a lot smarter and i would not want my wife doing such a thing i have grown to love in ways my young self could never and i respect her too much to want her to do that.

We are grown adults after all

homebuilder

I want a lady on the streets but a freak in the bed

rj700

My wife will do this to me occasionally where no one else sees it but me. She will also do it around the house when the kids are turned the other way.

Caribbean Man

Well in the Caribbean we have many Carnivals.
They are much more risque than Brazil....
Plenty of that [ flashing ] down here...
I have been to large fetes where women actually take off their underwear and wave them like mini flags. Some of the most
" proper " women turn into freaks when the alcohol and music gets into their head.
I have been to large parties with friends , when ladies in our group, and my gf at the time did it, It was just fun.
Blame in on the music.........

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KanDo

I personally think it says alot about the (lack of) boundaries of the woman. Even more so about how the husband objectifies his wife if asking for this (which is what I am gathering from your posts).

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