wife/gf flashing

jealoushubby · 08-29-2012, 04:04 PM

My friends and I were discussing this and I wanted to get different opinions. If you are a guy would you mind or even be turned on if our woman flashed her breasts at a party, bar, mardi gras, strip poker game ect? Or would u be jealous or upset? Women would you or have you ever done this? Is it a turn on to be the center of attention like that. If it turned your man on would you do it if he asked you to?
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Jellybeans · 08-29-2012, 04:06 PM

I would never do that. Personally, I hate being the center of attention and think it's trashy when anyone goes around flashing people in public. Gross. No guy I'd ever be with would ever ask me to do that cause they know they would get smacked for even suggesting I do this in public.

wiigirl · 08-29-2012, 04:07 PM

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I would never do that. Personally, I hate being the center of attention and think it's trashy when anyone goes around flashing people in public. Gross. No guy I'd ever be with would ever ask me to do that cause they know they would get smacked for even suggesting I do this in public.

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Hope1964 · 08-29-2012, 04:08 PM

I am long past the point of being proud enough of my 'assets' to want to show them off in public like that. I would only do it if I was protesting a law that women have to cover their breasts and men don't or something. It wouldn't be to titillate anyone and wouldn't be a 'flash' per se.

OnTheRocks · 08-29-2012, 04:10 PM

Yeah it's trashy, but seriously - lighten up, ladies. Smack your SO over suggesting it?

A Bit Much · 08-29-2012, 04:11 PM

A friend was in town just this past weekend and we took a pic of us grabbing a handful of the other's boobs. Why? It's like a joke with our llittle group of friends. We put it up in our private FB group and everyone got a laugh. My hubby took the pic.

Would I do that on a regular basis? HELL NO. And my husband wouldn't ask me to. Flashing just isn't my thing.

I've been to mardi gras. Didn't flash one single time... still collected plenty of beads though!

Hope1964 · 08-29-2012, 04:15 PM

I was going to use the word trashy in my post too

It's such a comment on our attitudes about women's breasts that simply showing them to other people is considered trashy.

WorkingOnMe · 08-29-2012, 04:17 PM

I can't imagine my wife doing this in a million years. She's only recently been secure enough in her body to be nude around ME, let alone showing off to others. That said, would I mind? No, as long as she only ever did it with me by my side it wouldn't bother me at all. Would it turn me on? Depends on the circumstances but I could see it turning me on in the right context. If she made it clear to me that she was doing it to turn me on, and again, was right by my side.

An example of doing it for some purpose "other" than to turn me on? Sitting on my shoulders at an outdoor concert taking her top off. See, that's being done for the benefit of the band, not me. I would not like that AT ALL.

An example of doing it for me? She's sitting on my lap at a poker game and offers her top in the pot because I'm short on cash and have a good hand. And once I'm broke she immediately suggests that we retire to a more secluded location.

jealoushubby · 08-29-2012, 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by A Bit Much

A friend was in town just this past weekend and we took a pic of us grabbing a handful of the other's boobs. Why? It's like a joke with our llittle group of friends. We put it up in our private FB group and everyone got a laugh. My hubby took the pic.

Would I do that on a regular basis? HELL NO. And my husband wouldn't ask me to. Flashing just isn't my thing.

I've been to mardi gras. Didn't flash one single time... still collected plenty of beads though!

Dare I ask how you did earn those beads?? Lol
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A Bit Much · 08-29-2012, 04:19 PM

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Dare I ask how you did earn those beads?? Lol
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My dazzling smile and my dance moves

jealoushubby · 08-29-2012, 04:21 PM

Seems there is a different take on flashing at something like a concert or mardi gras and doing something like flashing during a poker game or on a dare from friends. Does one have more of a chance of being a turn on?
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badbane · 08-29-2012, 04:23 PM

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My friends and I were discussing this and I wanted to get different opinions. If you are a guy would you mind or even be turned on if our woman flashed her breasts at a party, bar, mardi gras, strip poker game ect? Or would u be jealous or upset? Women would you or have you ever done this? Is it a turn on to be the center of attention like that. If it turned your man on would you do it if he asked you to?
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Hell no now maybe flashing me at a party with no one looking. That sounds kinda fun.

HopelesslyJaded · 08-29-2012, 04:26 PM

Don't look, Momma's got her boobs out!

jealoushubby · 08-29-2012, 04:27 PM

One time my wife and I were hanging out drinking with another couple we are great friends with. The topic of sex and boobs naturally came up and with some egging on from us guys they both flashed us for a few seconds. It was super hot bc it was with trusted friends and it was totally unexpected
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La Rose Noire · 08-29-2012, 04:30 PM

No I wouldn't flash and I don't think my boyfriend would like that. He has mentioned however that he'd like to find a beach where I could tan topless. I'm fine with that.
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