05-11-2009, 03:23 PM
Join Date: May 2009
| | Re: People Can Change
I believe people can change but it doesn't happen overnight...
most profound change is a result of some major crisis..
When I was a teenager I had a very bad home life. I got into all kinds of things I should not have been doing. BY late teenage years I stopped and got on the straight and narrow but only because my choices were causing complete and utter devistation to my life.
I have met some of the people from my teenage years and they comment how much I have changed. Yes.. I have... as I tell them, I couldnt do much about anything when I was a kid, but as I got older I could, and did.
I can't even relate to many people I knew during my teen years...
I am a very different person than I was but it did not happen overnight and was a very deperate situation, where if I didn't get it together, I would have died.
People can change but often times it is not permanent or for the right reasons ( to please someone else is not a good reason)..
people can change.