05-14-2009, 04:30 PM
Join Date: May 2009
| | Re: Jumping from a long-term relationship into a marriage with another man...
Originally Posted by preso
dunno about this one...
my grandparents met and within one week married. They were happily married over 50 years... so
I am not one to think it matters so much length of time you know someone....maybe it matters how well the individuals know themselves?
My grandparents were 19 and 20 when they married... and they were one of the few couples who were actually happily married the entire time they were married, until he died at about age 70.
it depends on some things, the largest may be how well the people know themselves, what they want, how well they have communicated their hopes and desires... how capable they are.. etc.
It's just not so cut and dry.
Yeah, but this day and age? Especially with her jumping out of a relationship where she was crazy in love. I figured the rebound effect would happen, but she seems to be jumping head first into this.