I have been married for 10 years to a navy man and we have 2 kids. I am a housewife. I guess I am frustrated because he never tells me how he feels about things or what he wants. HE holds it in and keeps me guessing. I don't know if he does this intentionally or what. Like last night I got mad because he didn't want to do something sexually to me, and that was alright, but he couldn't actually tell me or say, honey, i don't want to do that right now, or something like that. Anyways, that is not one of the major points. We were talking a couple days ago and it turned into an argument. I said"honey, I might be depressed for a little while" so I asked him if he could support me and be copassionate. HE got mad and didn't want to deal with it. I have been depressed for a while now, don't know if it is due to my marriage. I was diagnosed Bipolar and have a doctor. I am fine today and yesterday I was. Also, he was upset because the guys have gone out to the fights, and he didn't bother telling me about it because "he just doesn't do that." Meaning that we have been doing this for 10 years...us stay home as a family and do our own little thing. I have always encouraged him to go out with his friends, but he won't. Don't know if it is because he will feel guilty for leaving me with the kids at home. He wants me to have a girls night out and stuff, but there isn't anyone I can go out with. He can go, and I asked him to promise that next time there is a fight to tell me so that he can go. Sorry about the nagging, but I am just sick and tired of guess what he wants. I need the communication skills it takes for this marriage, and maybe teach it to my husband. I will probably write more later. Thanks.