05-28-2009, 12:09 AM
Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Sydney, Aus
| | Re: I dont understand men.
Originally Posted by unhappy at home
Greatmindset, I agree with what you wrote, but this works both ways, it is the same for women, as far as I am concerned.
Women need to feel that they are important and valued, maybe not the "hero", but the reciprocation of affection, if it is not reciprocated or rejected more than not, we too turn away and look for something or someone to fill the void of feeling unloved and not valued.
I totally agree, it does work both ways, hence I said it was equally responsible.
Most people forget when they're in a relationship they're both on the same team or boat. What happens when they start attacking each other? The answer is pretty obvious.