I dont understand men.

marriagehelp12 · 05-26-2009, 11:02 AM

when I do something to upset my wife. I say I am sorry, I never buy her ssomething out of guilt adn never will unless I just screwed up big. However, to watch porn on the web cam when you clearly don't approve is seriously messed up and no matter what you do together I can see he will never respect your wishes. You need to decide if you can deal with this habit of his or not once and for all in my opinion. I can tell you if it were me doing that on the computer my wife would be offended and if I did not stop she would be gone................

Greatermindset · 05-28-2009, 12:09 AM

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Originally Posted by unhappy at home

Greatmindset, I agree with what you wrote, but this works both ways, it is the same for women, as far as I am concerned.
Women need to feel that they are important and valued, maybe not the "hero", but the reciprocation of affection, if it is not reciprocated or rejected more than not, we too turn away and look for something or someone to fill the void of feeling unloved and not valued.

I totally agree, it does work both ways, hence I said it was equally responsible.

Most people forget when they're in a relationship they're both on the same team or boat. What happens when they start attacking each other? The answer is pretty obvious.