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Old 05-26-2009, 11:40 AM   #16 (permalink)
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Sending hugs to you Humpty, hope today is a better one for you I'm feeling pretty down myself lately But we all must push through this site has helped me you guys are all very supportive I'm thankful for you all
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Old 05-26-2009, 12:28 PM   #17 (permalink)
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Hey, hugs to everybody! We all need it! Group hug, group hug.
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Old 05-26-2009, 12:33 PM   #18 (permalink)
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I can go with the group hug thing...can we arrange a group "Throwing Objects at a Wall in Frustration" party as well?
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Old 05-26-2009, 12:46 PM   #19 (permalink)
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sending all of you my love hugs and support !! would love to join a throwing things in frustration party though !! hissey fitting over i will smile honest
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Old 05-26-2009, 01:05 PM   #20 (permalink)
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the crisis has now transformed into your everyday life and you're settling in to your new circumstances, your new life.

you now have a moment to consider the long view and are probably comparing your new life to what your life was like just a few weeks ago. the two are really quite different.

and so you mourn what was and have anger about what is.

this too shall pass.

meantime, if you feel you must throw things at walls, then choose what you throw and the wall you throw it at very carefully but throw with abandon.

instead of throwing things, i'm looking for mud puddles to splash in today. and maybe doing an emoticon quilt.
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Old 05-26-2009, 01:07 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Old 05-26-2009, 01:37 PM   #22 (permalink)
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meantime, if you feel you must throw things at walls, then choose what you throw and the wall you throw it at very carefully but throw with abandon
How about darts at a blown up pic of my STBX?
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Old 05-26-2009, 01:53 PM   #23 (permalink)
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instead of throwing things, i'm looking for mud puddles to splash in today. and maybe doing an emoticon quilt.
Puddle jumping sounds promising...are you a jump in barefoot kind of guy, or a squeamish, wear rubber boots sort?

I hear quilting is very therapeutic...but I think more emoticons may be required in order to do full justice to your creative ability...
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Old 05-26-2009, 02:01 PM   #24 (permalink)
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if you already have the pic and the darts, go for it.

you might also consider taking in the waist on his suits by an inch so he thinks he's gaining weight, and then in a couple of weeks you could let the waist out a couple of inches so he thinks he lost the weight.

or, you could sneak into his wallet and superglue all of his credit cards together.

or maybe, when he's out of town next, you could find out which hotel he's staying at and order 25 or 30 pizzas to his room. every night.

oh, here's a mean thought: sneak his cel phone and erase his contact list. ouch.

you're trying to get me in trouble, aren't you.

and now if you'll excuse me, i just spotted another mud puddle.

ps mud puddle jumping is most satisfying when done wearing your best shoes, and is most exciting when done barefoot. ask any kid.
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Old 05-26-2009, 02:14 PM   #25 (permalink)
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if you already have the pic and the darts, go for it.

you might also consider taking in the waist on his suits by an inch so he thinks he's gaining weight, and then in a couple of weeks you could let the waist out a couple of inches so he thinks he lost the weight.

or, you could sneak into his wallet and superglue all of his credit cards together.

or maybe, when he's out of town next, you could find out which hotel he's staying at and order 25 or 30 pizzas to his room. every night.

oh, here's a mean thought: sneak his cel phone and erase his contact list. ouch.

you're trying to get me in trouble, aren't you.
All excellent ideas...thank you ...only problem is that with so many choices, I'm not sure where to start

He's locked his cell phone, so I'm not sure if there is any way I can erase his contact list...could I "accidentally" run over it instead? Or say I have no idea how the 2 year old got ahold of the phone and dropped it into the toilet....


Darn, I think I am now in danger of becoming a Vindictive, Evil Acting Thread Stealing B*tch....

Meanwhile, I'm off to the Dollar Store to stock up on superglue...
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feel so down today .. been through a really bad weekend not sure if i want to recover ..in fact i dont even know what i want.
Im doing to much to please others and not myself looking for a light at the end of a tunnel

There are days I feel like that too....
what I do is stay away from highly sugared food and try to
keep things light... no major projects, just take a hot bath and
try to watch some mindless TV.
I usually feel better in a day or two.
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Old 05-27-2009, 04:35 AM   #27 (permalink)
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what I do is stay away from highly sugared food

What no chocolate !!!!
Im going to be fine one day at a time !! special thanks to dcrim and mark for all there time yesterday you guys simple made a great differents in how i look at life hugs to you both
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Anything we can do for you, girl!
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Old 05-27-2009, 05:25 AM   #29 (permalink)
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Im good thanks have a smile on my face and its going to stay there
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Old 05-27-2009, 11:15 AM   #30 (permalink)
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do you have chocolate ? ha ha
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