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post #1 of 30 (permalink) Old 05-26-2009, 04:03 AM Thread Starter
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feeling so down :(

feel so down today .. been through a really bad weekend not sure if i want to recover ..in fact i dont even know what i want.
Im doing to much to please others and not myself looking for a light at the end of a tunnel

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Girl! I wish I could help! Hang in there! I'd be glad to do anything to make you feel better...

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Emotions come in waves usually. Ride the wave and it will subside. Recovery isn't constant it has peaks and valleys. I think you might be in valley right now unable to see above it. Hang in there. These feelings will subside. You just need to ride it out. HUGS.
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I can usally deal with things in a calm way , i am a happy person and i can usally find the good in most things and laugh when things go wrong ..

I just feel like im treading water and slowly drowning its only been one bad weekend thats all and i feel like trash.

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Well, you're not trash. Believe me, I know what trash is! Hang in there, girl...we all love you.

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THANKS dcrim

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Anything I can do for you, babe!

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I feel like crap today, too. We can gripe together.
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cool lets all be sad together !! cry together !! scream together my list can go on and on

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not superhumman just super had enough !!!
im sure ill be fine

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Can you get out for awhile? Take some time for yourself, away from the kids, away from your husband, and just go and do something for you? It sounds like you are exhausted, overwhelmed and immensly frustrated...I know the feeling.

And yes, I'm sure you will bounce back - you are an incredibly strong woman who has had a crippling load of issues to deal with, so there are going to be days when the light at the end of the tunnel seems to be blocked out by an oncoming train.

Just keep putting one foot in front of the other...you'll get there in the end.
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I can't offer much advice or consolation cause I kinda feel like you do right now but I can offer you a virtual hug. Sorry you're having such a rough time. I really hope that the rest of this week gets better for you.
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hey we all deserve a hug sending you one to .. i fed up with crying fed up with feeling down we all deserve to feel happy dont we ?

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I'm guessing stuff with your mom and/or parents over the affair revelation? or was it something totally different?

Either way, hang in there HD.
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all of the above !!

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