Again, NOT husband - boyfriend of 7 months. I realize I'm on TAM but there's no where I've found that gives reasonable dating advice that isn't directed toward the 20-30 y/o crowd.
Since he seems to have SO many friends of both genders and knows the pain of being cheated on, I'd like to think he wouldn't dare and that he'd end it with me before perusing anything.
And I feel I'm unreasonable to ask him to sit at home alone just because I can't go out.
One girl is 31 and very pretty and the other is hard to tell as she's a pacific islander.
We fooled around a few times before finally having sex in August. Sex one more time. Then an overnight where we had to be up at 4am and he was too tired followed by reunion, business trips, etc. Plus since my daughter is home always except for every other weekend, opportunity only knocks twice a month. Planets must align.
Friday he was tired from business trip so I woke him up at 6am w/ a BJ then nothing. I realize he might not be up for another O but what about morning sex? Shower sex? My having a turn?
He's very self conscious about his body (big deal - he has a flabby tummy - I'm not perfect at size 16) and VERY cautious about relationships and probably less sexual partners than me.
I'm childless this weekend so it will be interesting to see if he stays over and what happens. The next weekend Im without child he's going out of town to stay w/ a married friend to go to a college football game so a month will pass.
Could be he's severely LD. I think he needs HRT but I don't know if it's appropriate I suggest that so soon in our relationship.