My mother is going through a really hard separation from her husband after 30 years of marriage. She went through a foreclosure on top of everything else. My husband and I decided to buy our first house so she can move in with us and not have to worry about making ends meet. We gave her almost the whole upstairs (with the exception of the guest room and office). My husband and I have most of our things downstairs (master down).
My mother moved in four months ago...and it became very obvious very quickly that her and my husband were not going to get along. My mother moved most of her household into ours. She took over the whole back and front yard with her decorations..and took over our garage...we weren't able to put our two cents into any of it...and my mother was trying to control our house as she did with her house. My husband has a type A personality...and decided to take back his house. He would move things around to his liking, etc. Well this upset my mother to a point where she will sit in her room crying all day and all night about him moving things around in the house.
Every morning after my husband goes to work...my mother will come to me with a new complaints about him. When I address these complaints to him...he gets very verbal and aggressive.
I just found out I am pregnant. When I went to tell my mother this news...she wasn't really that happy for me...because she doesn't care much for my husband. I am under a lot of stress. I don't want to lose the baby because of all this stress. I can't please either one of them. My mom has no job so she can't live on her own. She claims that my house is torture to her. I thought I tried everything to keep the peace...and we'll have peace for a brief moment before something new starts. I am at the end of my rope..and am extremely depressed.
My mother moved in four months ago...and it became very obvious very quickly that her and my husband were not going to get along. My mother moved most of her household into ours. She took over the whole back and front yard with her decorations..and took over our garage...we weren't able to put our two cents into any of it...and my mother was trying to control our house as she did with her house. My husband has a type A personality...and decided to take back his house. He would move things around to his liking, etc. Well this upset my mother to a point where she will sit in her room crying all day and all night about him moving things around in the house.
Every morning after my husband goes to work...my mother will come to me with a new complaints about him. When I address these complaints to him...he gets very verbal and aggressive.
I just found out I am pregnant. When I went to tell my mother this news...she wasn't really that happy for me...because she doesn't care much for my husband. I am under a lot of stress. I don't want to lose the baby because of all this stress. I can't please either one of them. My mom has no job so she can't live on her own. She claims that my house is torture to her. I thought I tried everything to keep the peace...and we'll have peace for a brief moment before something new starts. I am at the end of my rope..and am extremely depressed.