06-04-2009, 09:29 PM
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Republic (in the Ozarks), MO
| | Re: I need relationship help!
Are you talking common law marriage? Some states recognize, some don't.
For example, Snix in TX is, me and xgf in MO weren 't. Sometimes, that's a good, sometimes it isn't.
If you're not married "legally"...check your options...think about moving on. And that WILL hurt, I promise; but, you will get over it.
If you want to make it better, though...have no contact with your families (for a while...let them wonder). Focus on each other. COMMUNICATE! Talk about everything. Make no unilateral decisions. Once you both are happy together, then your families can see that and be happy for you, if not for each other.
It ain't illegal until you're caught!