You will see from some of my other posts things not too nice at home.
Anyway I have decided to stop shouting at the children there is no point in taking things out on them. I will also stop shouting at my h when he starts, no point does not change things, will try and talk to him calmy, if he does not like this I will walk away. i have had anough of arguing and do not want this any longer. Will try my hardest one more time. Hopefully this might work or make him even worse!