Re: Help!!! I resent my husband
If he was making that much on his own he's probably just having a hard time adjusting to a different lifestyle. I dont think he's right in what he is doing, but he probably just needs some adjusting and a little bit of a wake up call to the situation- which unfortunately it sounds like you're going to have to give him. Also, i dont know why he got the fine, or what caused him to yell at his boss, but it sounds like he has a really hard time following rules. he probably just wants things his way and gets upset like a child when it doesnt go his way.
I know it sucks standing up to him but if you two work on your boundaries in the marriage things will mellow out and you can feel good again, even if you dont feel good about the relationship.
"I'm a lover of what is, not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality."
- Bryon Katie