Its been 2 weeks since my wife's announcement. Things are still the same. She has seen the therapist once, with another visit next week. Last night she asked me if I had spoken to anyone. I said I had shared this with a friend. I laid everything on the line for her. How I hoped we could work on getting back to where we were. She said it would have to wait until after our sons operation in 2 weeks. Then we could discuss it. I have pretty much come to the realization that this may be over. I asked about an affair. She neither confirmed nor denied it. I just don't know what to do. I do not want to sound selfish, my sons health is my number 1 priority but I needed to vent a little.