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Old 06-27-2009, 07:58 AM   #1 (permalink)
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He was drunk and called at 1:30 am. My bf's father hung up on him.
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Old 06-27-2009, 08:00 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Hmmmmmm, I guess your shock treatment must be beginning to bite.
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Looks like you have a stalker !
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I went to have a couple of drinks after work, parked my car in the most obvious spot so he could see that I was there He showed up there anyway.

Last night he calls my bf's house when I wasn't home, to see "who calls here every night".

Today he says he knows all about him, apparently my bf is 21, 23, and 24 yrs old. He says everyone knows who he is, he then says he'll get a lawyer.

I just shook my head.

My husband was the one who ended this relatioship, he said he wasn't in love with me. I moved on and I don't think he likes it. He says he's gonna bring blonds home, I'm bisexual so I asked him jokingly to share.
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Old 06-27-2009, 09:14 AM   #5 (permalink)
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if you're married and you want boyfriends.. then you need to legally seperate from you husband and eventually divorce if the marriage is "over" ... its just wrong to be married and have one on the side.. i dont blame your husband for callin to find out "whos been callin" every night. I woulda done the same thing if my H had another woman calling here every night. Shame on you!
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Old 06-27-2009, 09:43 AM   #6 (permalink)
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you use the terms "husband" and "boyfriend" in such a cavalier manner that i worry about you. your attitude about the whole thing screams of arrogance.

do you read the news? i'm not saying it would happen, but "crimes of passion" happen all the time. what happens when your "husband" decides a phone call isn't enough? there are plenty of cases where a simpathetic jury uses the jury nullification proces and finds a defendant not guilty in a case of murder in a crime of passion.

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Old 06-27-2009, 10:53 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Hmmmmmm, I guess your shock treatment must be beginning to bite.
It sure is and it feels real good. The fact that he even called him was a sure sign that he may not be out of love for me. he is not made of stone after all.

lol Preso.

aberlynn, I have no shame in this situation. There's more to the story. I don't want boyfriends, I want only this one.

voivoid, crime of passion will never happen in this scenario.


For those who don't know what my situation is, my husband and I are over. I do not need to legally seprate to move on. He also gave me the go-ahead to date. I can do without judgement kthx.
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Crimes of Passion are real, I knew a couple she broke up with him, he killed the new boyfriend then himself.

You're playing with potential fire here Veronica, but nothing will happen because you are too cool for that.
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VJ, you go for it, girl! Make sure you get the papers that says you're done, though. Love your avatar!
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Old 06-28-2009, 01:34 PM   #10 (permalink)
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I called my husband out the next day, he locked me out of the house and started messing with my stuff. My H is not passionate enough to do any crime, he's not that into me.

He was just a dumb drunk Friday night and I hope he is starting to realize what he is letting go. He told me that he was gonna start bringing blonds to the house. LOL. I don't bring my bf to the house. If he brings blonds he better share.

Can't wait to be out of here. Hopefully one more week!

My bf showed me ore of his modelling pics lst night...HOT!
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Next on Jerry Springer.......
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I called my husband out the next day, he locked me out of the house and started messing with my stuff. My H is not passionate enough to do any crime, he's not that into me.gee, i don't understand THAT...

He was just a dumb drunk Friday night and I hope he is starting to realize what he is letting go. He told me that he was gonna start bringing blonds to the house. LOL. I don't bring my bf to the house. If he brings blonds he better share.

Can't wait to be out of here.leave hotshot...doesn't you "boyfriend" have a house you could stay at? Hopefully one more week!

My bf showed me ore of his modelling pics last night...HOT!really? as hot asd your profile pic???
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He was drunk and called at 1:30 am. My bf's father hung up on him.
a crime of passion is referred to as temporary insanity. case law most often referred to in "passion killers" and passion crimes is the case of U.S. Congressman daniel sickles of New York in 1859, when he killed his wifes lover.

jury nullification, combined with the lack of power granted to judges in some jurisdictions, results in the passion killer being set "free" for an average of two years "rehabilitation" in an asylum. trade two years for killing the adulterous spouse or lover of same? pretty good trade, thinks the passion killer.

thinking it couldn't happen makes one more vulnerable to it, i'd assume.
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Yep it happens. Like I said, I knew a couple, she was really cute he was from the streets and "rehabilitated," ten years older than her, anyway a year and a half later she realizes he's stealing from her and she breaks up with him. She gets a new boyfriend he breaks in and shoots the new bf dead and almost shot her but she talked him out of it. Then he shot himself dead. I still can't believe he is gone, we went out with them many many times. Anyway that most likely won't happen here, but our op's self centeredness is certainly making for some good entertainment.
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Old 06-29-2009, 07:13 AM   #15 (permalink)
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Veronica seems like a fun wild chick that I would love to party with, you remind me of a girl I know at a local organization here in Atlanta. Especially look wise.

Anyway, I would just seperate from him and move on, otherwise I think it's got to work itself out. He dumped yyou, now he is jealous you are getting action from a young stud and he isn't.

kudo's to you.
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